It’s Quite Profound…

I’m not sure where any of you land on past lives, but I am way too into parts of the past to not have been here before. And it all peaks at different times of the year. Like right now. Right now, I feel really in touch with what’s going on around me. From theContinue reading “It’s Quite Profound…”

Add A Lanyard: Function Over Form

It’s hard not to condemn someone for condemning you, but there I was – reading an ample tirade regarding “how stupid” I was for putting lanyards on my pocket knives – written by someone who just thought it was for looks. I’ve been carrying a pocket knife for more than 30 years. I’ve carried themContinue reading “Add A Lanyard: Function Over Form”

She Could Change Everything About Her Using Colors Bold and Bright | 3.27.2025

The sparkle in your eyeswas always competing with the eagerness in your smile. You never spoke too much.You let your body do the talking… And you caught me in your sway. Everything was a photograph.Everything was perfect.Everything was what it needed to be to be in love… But you were never settled.There was something missing.AContinue reading “She Could Change Everything About Her Using Colors Bold and Bright | 3.27.2025”

The Other ‘Days Between’

The week between Christmas and New Year’s is always a bit untethered. I take this week off from work to spend with my kids and face it down with no expectations at all. In fact, right now the only thing we’ve got planned out is a trip to Vermont tomorrow. Another fact: I didn’t knowContinue reading “The Other ‘Days Between’”

Relationships: A Case Study on Overthinking

There’s nothing wrong with being open and honest and wearing your heart on your sleeve. There’s also nothing wrong with talking about your feelings and realizing that nothing in life fits in a singular, simple box. Don’t ever assume you can assume what’s going on until you ask the hard questions or pre-emptively supply theContinue reading “Relationships: A Case Study on Overthinking”

The Ginger People

Before it left their system entirely, the illness that buggered up my girls over the weekend shared one of its remaining embers with me. It’s basically a cold with heavy nausea. Anyone who knows me knows that I could be fully engulfed in flames and won’t complain, but I tend to go fetal at theContinue reading “The Ginger People”

John Mayer | 8.25.23

Familiar feelingsabout something and not someone… The thrill of diving deeper…The fear of not finding the bottom.The fact that there is no bottom… The sudden change of pace.An extra ingredient in the game of life. I’m getting distracted on purpose. It comes in waves.I may be a strong swimmer,but what am I missing on theContinue reading “John Mayer | 8.25.23”